175- Setting Healthy Boundaries


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Why do people cringe at the suggestion of setting a boundary? So many people respond with, "I don't like confrontation", when I suggest a boundary.


Setting boundaries is tough to do if we were not modeled healthy boundaries growing up. Even if we came from a pretty healthy family, few people grew up with healthy boundary modeling. 


In today's show I talk about what boundaries are, how to set them, examples of healthy versus unhealthy boundaries and the four key steps and "how to's",  to setting healthy boundaries. 


I also discuss what to do when boundaries "backfire" and we are met with upsetness or anger from another at our simple request. 


I end with a few take aways of what boundaries are and are not and what to do if you are in a toxic or even abusive relationship. 


Boundaries are a necessary part of our lives and a key to healthy relationships. This show is filled with great tools and tips to help you to start better taking care of yourself and learning how to set a simple request and teaching other people how to treat you. 

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The Adult Chair San Antonio
https://theadultchair.com/san-antonio 


The Adult Chair Membership (September Theme-I Matter)
https://theadultchair.com/membership 

OTHER RELEVANT ADULT CHAIR PODCASTS:

Boundaries and Defenses
https://theadultchair.com/podcast/160 


Boundaries versus Confrontation
https://theadultchair.com/podcast/26 


How do I feel my Emotions
https://theadultchair.com/podcast/80 

MORE ADULT CHAIR:

The Adult Chair® Website

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The Adult Chair® Membership

https://theadultchair.com/membership/ 

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